Blog – July 2023

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BLOG OF FIRST LADY OF LOUISIANA DONNA EDWARDS

It’s July Already!

July 2023

As a part of our social media presence, my staff and I often research and discuss holidays and observance days in each month. There are usually so many awareness and celebration days each month. The large amount of these days sparked some thought on awareness. I’ve come to appreciate the importance of awareness. It’s incredible how a little knowledge can go a long way in bringing problems in our society to the surface. I spend a good amount of time bringing awareness to each of my initiatives.

Some of these “awareness days” can spark joy, laughter, and even some surprises in our daily routines. So, grab a cool glass of sweet tea, sit back, and let’s dive into some of the more lighthearted and perhaps more obscure holidays and observance days that grace the month of July! You can see a complete list here.

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July 15: National Ice Cream Day
Who can resist the creamy goodness of ice cream? This day is a perfect excuse to indulge in our favorite frozen treat and share the joy with friends and family. Whether you’re team chocolate, vanilla, or something more exotic, take a moment to savor every sweet bite.

July 22: National Hammock Day
Imagine swaying gently in a cozy hammock in the warm Louisiana breeze as you blissfully relax. It’s a day dedicated to embracing leisure and tranquility. So, find the nearest pair of sturdy trees, grab a good book, and let yourself unwind in the comforting embrace of a hammock.

July 30: National Cheesecake Day:
Calling all dessert enthusiasts! Take a break from the heat and treat yourself to a slice of luscious cheesecake. The rich flavors and velvety texture will transport your taste buds to dessert heaven! Add some Louisiana strawberries, too!

July 30: International Day of Friendship
Let’s remember the importance of friendship. On this day, reach out to your loved ones, near and far, and let them know how much they mean to you. Share stories, laughter, and memories, for true friendships are the threads that weave the fabric of our lives together.

Taking the time to appreciate the little things and celebrate the holidays and observance days of July. These days can add some much-needed lightheartedness and fun to our routines. So, fellow Louisianans, let’s embrace all holidays and find joy in National Ice Cream Day, relax on National Hammock Day, indulge in cheesecake on National Cheesecake Day, and celebrate the bonds of friendship on the International Day of Friendship. Life is too short to miss the sweet and fun moments  that make it truly remarkable!

Enjoy the rest of July!

Love to all,

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It’s July Already!

July 2023

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As a part of our social media presence, my staff and I often research and discuss holidays and observance days in each month. There are usually so many awareness and celebration days each month. The large amount of these days sparked some thought on awareness. I’ve come to appreciate the importance of awareness. It’s incredible how a little knowledge can go a long way in bringing problems in our society to the surface. I spend a good amount of time bringing awareness to each of my initiatives.

Some of these “awareness days” can spark joy, laughter, and even some surprises in our daily routines. So, grab a cool glass of sweet tea, sit back, and let’s dive into some of the more lighthearted and perhaps more obscure holidays and observance days that grace the month of July! You can see a complete list here.

July 15: National Ice Cream Day
Who can resist the creamy goodness of ice cream? This day is a perfect excuse to indulge in our favorite frozen treat and share the joy with friends and family. Whether you’re team chocolate, vanilla, or something more exotic, take a moment to savor every sweet bite.

July 22: National Hammock Day
Imagine swaying gently in a cozy hammock in the warm Louisiana breeze as you blissfully relax. It’s a day dedicated to embracing leisure and tranquility. So, find the nearest pair of sturdy trees, grab a good book, and let yourself unwind in the comforting embrace of a hammock.

July 30: National Cheesecake Day:
Calling all dessert enthusiasts! Take a break from the heat and treat yourself to a slice of luscious cheesecake. The rich flavors and velvety texture will transport your taste buds to dessert heaven! Add some Louisiana strawberries, too!

July 30: International Day of Friendship
Let’s remember the importance of friendship. On this day, reach out to your loved ones, near and far, and let them know how much they mean to you. Share stories, laughter, and memories, for true friendships are the threads that weave the fabric of our lives together.

Taking the time to appreciate the little things and celebrate the holidays and observance days of July. These days can add some much-needed lightheartedness and fun to our routines. So, fellow Louisianans, let’s embrace all holidays and find joy in National Ice Cream Day, relax on National Hammock Day, indulge in cheesecake on National Cheesecake Day, and celebrate the bonds of friendship on the International Day of Friendship. Life is too short to miss the sweet and fun moments  that make it truly remarkable!

Enjoy the rest of July!

Love to all,

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Getting Past the Mid-Summer Hump

Carolyn Scalfano

Happy Summer, Louisiana. The heat index in my area was 113 degrees every day last week. As my little one wiggles around in my bed before sunrise, my brain begins to flicker on: “What on earth are we going to do all day?”  Some say that freedom is both a blessing and a curse. Summer is the time to slow down and take in the world around you, but for some of us, both young and old, the lack of routine can lead to fear of the unknown, overthinking, and overlooking life’s little joys.  

I want to follow that personal anecdote with some advice I rely on frequently. Some may agree or disagree with its accuracy, but reflecting on these assertions has helped me relax in the last few weeks. I listened to a woman speak about the concept called “Let it Happen.”  It’s like Elsa’s concept of “Let it Go.” But on a serious note, the view of “Letting it Happen” is rooted in a belief system centered around acceptance.

 “Acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing, or situation—some fact of my life—unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment.”  -Bill W.

When we go into situations with expectations, and things don’t turn out as planned, it can cause disappointment, the judgment of ourselves or others, and even anger and resentment. A relatable example of this is the one and only “family vacation.”  The anticipation for sun and fun is sometimes quickly outshined by agitation and stress and often ended in discord. A personal example of acceptance in action would be my son and I trying to make it to school on time. No matter how early I rose, there were days last year when my son and I missed his preschool drop-off time. Why is that, you ask? Well… it could be that I didn’t have the right shirt ready for him, he had misplaced his folder, or maybe his shoes didn’t feel right that morning. These are the days I just had to “Let it Happen.”   If we missed his drop-off time, I would have to bring him to school, which created a ripple effect, causing me to be late to my school as well. As much as my internal impulse was to panic and immediately envision the worst (people talking about my tardiness, professional repercussions, etc.), I had the opportunity to choose acceptance. I just let it happen, and everything was fine. In fact, the few mornings that I dropped my son in the car rider line at his school were a rare opportunity to make fond memories that we shared during his first year in school.

If you are wondering how to get your kids through the mid-summer hump and prepare them for school to start in the fall, may I suggest a few things to try and remember during our last weeks of vacation? Allow yourself and your loved ones to be comfortable. Stick to a simple schedule. Don’t pressure yourself or your loved ones to do it all today. Make fun your priority. Reflect on your progress. Take time to slow down. You and any little people in your home find ways to ride the waves of your feelings. And most of all, don’t hesitate to ask for help.  

Here are a few ideas to help your days flow, incorporate routine, and encourage fun and imaginative play into your daily routine.

Drive Past Your Kids’ School
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This is an opportunity to reminisce about good memories and also talk through any traumatic events of the past school year.

Summer Reading

Join your local library summer reading program, tackle that summer reading list for next year, or just read with your kid whenever!  Dinner time, bath time, and bedtime are three great opportunities to squeeze in some reading just for fun.

Make Playdates with Peers

We are lucky enough to have neighbors and cousins that we make it a point to spend time with.  Social emotional growth and awareness is critical for healthy developmental skills in children, and you will not and cannot find this type of interaction on a screen.

Add A New Responsibility Before School Starts

I hung a dry erase calendar in my son’s room on which we write past and future activities.  He crosses out the days as they pass.  A calendar helps young children learn the basics of the days of the week and the months of the year, but even more, for my son, it helps him to feel secure when he wakes up daily because he knows what to expect.  He can also mentally review past activities, which promotes a sense of accomplishment.

Create A Home Workspace

We have several spots in our home where my son knows that it is ok for him to “make a mess.”  An art desk, a box of sand in our garage, and a calm corner are just three examples of spaces that promote independence and the opportunity for imaginative play.

Get a Clock/Timer

Having a visual to help little minds understand the concept of time is the gift that keeps on giving.  It works for dinner, cleanup, bath, bed, and ESPECIALLY screen time.  

I hope these are some helpful tips for the remaining weeks of summer.  Best of luck for our new school year!

Sincerely,
Carolyn Scalfano

 

FEATURE

Getting Past the Mid-Summer Hump

Carolyn Scalfano

Happy Summer, Louisiana. The heat index in my area was 113 degrees every day last week. As my little one wiggles around in my bed before sunrise, my brain begins to flicker on: “What on earth are we going to do all day?”  Some say that freedom is both a blessing and a curse. Summer is the time to slow down and take in the world around you, but for some of us, both young and old, the lack of routine can lead to fear of the unknown, overthinking, and overlooking life’s little joys.  

I want to follow that personal anecdote with some advice I rely on frequently. Some may agree or disagree with its accuracy, but reflecting on these assertions has helped me relax in the last few weeks. I listened to a woman speak about the concept called “Let it Happen.”  It’s like Elsa’s concept of “Let it Go.” But on a serious note, the view of “Letting it Happen” is rooted in a belief system centered around acceptance.

 “Acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing, or situation—some fact of my life—unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment.”  -Bill W.

When we go into situations with expectations, and things don’t turn out as planned, it can cause disappointment, the judgment of ourselves or others, and even anger and resentment. A relatable example of this is the one and only “family vacation.”  The anticipation for sun and fun is sometimes quickly outshined by agitation and stress and often ended in discord. A personal example of acceptance in action would be my son and I trying to make it to school on time. No matter how early I rose, there were days last year when my son and I missed his preschool drop-off time. Why is that, you ask? Well… it could be that I didn’t have the right shirt ready for him, he had misplaced his folder, or maybe his shoes didn’t feel right that morning. These are the days I just had to “Let it Happen.”   If we missed his drop-off time, I would have to bring him to school, which created a ripple effect, causing me to be late to my school as well. As much as my internal impulse was to panic and immediately envision the worst (people talking about my tardiness, professional repercussions, etc.), I had the opportunity to choose acceptance. I just let it happen, and everything was fine. In fact, the few mornings that I dropped my son in the car rider line at his school were a rare opportunity to make fond memories that we shared during his first year in school.

If you are wondering how to get your kids through the mid-summer hump and prepare them for school to start in the fall, may I suggest a few things to try and remember during our last weeks of vacation? Allow yourself and your loved ones to be comfortable. Stick to a simple schedule. Don’t pressure yourself or your loved ones to do it all today. Make fun your priority. Reflect on your progress. Take time to slow down. You and any little people in your home find ways to ride the waves of your feelings. And most of all, don’t hesitate to ask for help.  

Here are a few ideas to help your days flow, incorporate routine, and encourage fun and imaginative play into your daily routine.

Drive past your kids’ school
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This is an opportunity to reminisce about good memories and also talk through any traumatic events of the past school year.

Summer Reading

Join your local library summer reading program, tackle that summer reading list for next year, or just read with your kid whenever!  Dinner time, bath time, and bedtime are three great opportunities to squeeze in some reading just for fun.

Make Playdates with Peers

We are lucky enough to have neighbors and cousins that we make it a point to spend time with.  Social emotional growth and awareness is critical for healthy developmental skills in children, and you will not and cannot find this type of interaction on a screen.

Add A New Responsibility Before School Starts

I hung a dry erase calendar in my son’s room on which we write past and future activities.  He crosses out the days as they pass.  A calendar helps young children learn the basics of the days of the week and the months of the year, but even more, for my son, it helps him to feel secure when he wakes up daily because he knows what to expect.  He can also mentally review past activities, which promotes a sense of accomplishment.

Create A Home Workspace

We have several spots in our home where my son knows that it is ok for him to “make a mess.”  An art desk, a box of sand in our garage, and a calm corner are just three examples of spaces that promote independence and the opportunity for imaginative play.

Get a Clock/Timer

Having a visual to help little minds understand the concept of time is the gift that keeps on giving.  It works for dinner, cleanup, bath, bed, and ESPECIALLY screen time.  

I hope these are some helpful tips for the remaining weeks of summer.  Best of luck for our new school year!

Sincerely,
Carolyn Scalfano

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LOUISIANA FIRST FOUNDATION

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July Is a Blind Date with Summer

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Royal Family Kids Camps

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The FREE Coalition to End Human Trafficking in Louisiana

GOVERNOR’S MANSION

It’s Christmas in July at the Governor’s Mansion Preservation Foundation!
Buy any ornament and get 10% off your total purchase for the whole month of July. Your discount is automatically applied at checkout. Get ahead of your Christmas shopping now and order the 2023 ornament! For information or questions about store items, contact PreserveLAGovernorsmansion@gmail.com

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Be Intentional and Informed About Women’s Health Screenings

by Kimiyo Harris Williams, MD, FAAP

Associate Professor of Clinical Pediatrics in the Division of Ambulatory Pediatrics & Adolescent Medicine at LSU School of Medicine

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As women, we are busy caring for our children, spouses or significant other, and or aging parents. This article is a “Sister to Sister” reminder to add regular health screenings to your “To Do” List. We should all visit our physician regularly for a wellness check even if you are feeling great. The US Preventive Services Task Force publishes a list of recommended screenings as a guide. Listed below are screening recommendations for women based on age.

BLOOD PRESSURE
Ages 18 to 39

Your blood pressure should be checked at least once every 3 to 5 years if:

  • Your blood pressure is in the normal range (top number less than 120 mm Hg and bottom number less than 80 mm Hg)
  • You don’t have risk factors for high blood pressure

Your blood pressure should be checked every year if any of the following are true:

Age 40-64

  • The top number is 120 to 129 mm Hg or the bottom number is 70 to 79 mm Hg
  • You have diabetes, heart diseasekidney problems, are overweight, or have certain other health conditions
  • You have a first-degree relative with high blood pressure
  • You are Black
  • You had high blood pressure during a pregnancy

If the top number is 130 mm Hg or greater or the bottom number is 80 mm Hg or greater, this is considered stage 1 hypertension. Schedule an appointment with your provider to learn how you can reduce your blood pressure.

BREAST CANCER SCREENING

Ages 18 to 39

  • Experts do not agree about the benefits of breast self-exams in finding breast cancer or saving lives. Talk to your provider about what is best for you.
  • Screening mammogram is not recommended for most women under age 40.

Your provider may discuss and recommend mammograms, MRI scans, or ultrasounds if you have an increased risk for breast cancer, such as:

  • A mother or sister who had breast cancer at a young age (most often starting screening earlier than the age the close relative was diagnosed
  • You carry a high-risk genetic marker

Ages 40 to 64

Screening mammogram is recommended for:

  • Women ages 40 to 49 every 1 to 2 years. However, not all experts agree about the benefits of having a mammogram when women are in their 40s. Talk to your provider about what is best for you.
  • Women ages 50 to 75 every 1 to 2 years, depending on their risk factors, to check for breast cancer.
  • Women with a mother or sister who had breast cancer at a younger age should consider yearly mammograms. They should begin screening earlier than the age at which their youngest family member was diagnosed.

If you have other risk factors for breast cancer, your provider may recommend a MRI scan for screening.

CERVICAL CANCER SCREENING

Ages 18 to 64

Cervical cancer screening should start at age 21 years.

After the first test:

  • Women ages 21 through 29 should have a Pap test every 3 years. HPV testing is not recommended for this age group.
  • Women ages 30 through 65 should be screened with either a Pap test every 3 years, or the HPV test every 5 years, or both tests every 5 years (called “co-testing”).
  • Women who have been treated for precancer (cervical dysplasia) should continue to have Pap tests for 20 years after treatment or until age 65, whichever is longer.
  • If you have had your uterus and cervix removed (total hysterectomy), and you have not been diagnosed with cervical cancer, you may not need to have Pap smears.

CHOLESTEROL SCREENING

Cholesterol screening should begin at:

  • Age 45 for women with no known risk factors for coronary heart disease
  • Age 20 for women with known risk factors for coronary heart disease (Ages 18-39)
  • Age 40 -45 for women with known risk factors for coronary heart disease (Ages 40-64)

Repeat cholesterol screening should take place:

  • Every 5 years for women with normal cholesterol levels
  • More often if changes occur in lifestyle (including weight gain and diet)
  • More often if you have diabetes, heart disease, kidney problems, or certain other conditions

DIABETES SCREENING

You should be screened for diabetes starting at age 35 and then repeated every 3 years if you have no risk factors for diabetes.

Screening may need to start earlier and be repeated more often if you have other risk factors for diabetes such as:

  • You have a first degree relative with diabetes.
  • You are overweight or have obesity.
  • You have high blood pressure, prediabetes, or a history of heart disease.

Screening for diabetes should be done if you are planning to become pregnant and you are overweight and have other risk factors such as high blood pressure.

These recommendations and additional screening guidelines are from the sources listed below.

Be intentional and Informed in your journey to wellness and good health my sisters.

“Self-love is Healthy Living.”

 Sources: 1.  https://medlineplus.gov/ency/article/007462.htm
                2.  https://medlineplus.gov/ency/article/007467.htm

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WATERMELON FETA SALAD

from the Louisiana Governor’s Mansion

Sweeten up your summer with this refreshing recipe – perfect for Louisiana pool days!

Memorable Verse

July 2023

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THE FIRST DOGS

July 2023

It’s a slippery slope for Molly and Bandit!

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